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anonymous
writes:I have bet having a problem, I'm in love with the rude,mean boy. He does nothing but treat me bad.I was wondering if I should deny his friendship and leave him alone.He was with my bestfriend in the start , and that how we met. He did nothing but tease me. He even told me he thought I was cute,but he was with my bestfriend.When, They broke up it was really big and he start flirt with me and he was being nice,but i thought it was to get back at my bestfriend, so i lost my chance 2 go with him and he start dating other girl(this wat im think not for sure). But he still call me here and there and it was nice, Ir eally like him but i keep think is this best, becuz ALL my friend hate him and i dont want 2 ruin my relationship with them. I think my bestfriend miss him but try 2 act strong, (even those im not the one for the whole DOnt-Date-ur-bestie-ex thing) i cant stop think about him, he being nice,(but he is still be and ass too.)I dont know what 2 do keep my BF in mind or try thing out with him. I know it sound like a two part question
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reader, Edward Helps +, writes (24 August 2008):
 Well I've helped several friends in the past and in your story it sounds like your heading for trouble. I can relate to your situation and I think you need to let him go. Friends will always be there for you and boyfriends won't. Example, I went out with my friends ex so him and my friends abandoned me. All I had was her, and about three weeks later she broke up with me. My friends held a grudge so after the break-up I was left with very few friends and no gf. So if I were you i'd keep my friends and not take a chance of losing them.
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