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writes: Iam still in love with this married man I lie awake everytime and imagine what it would be like if we came together heis good looking and has nice eyes and everything I feel shy when I see him but I really like him alot I deerpately would lkike to make that fisrt move I owuld liek to touch his face look intp his eyes and kiss him his body evrything its really really hard I do not know what to do every time i see him my face lights up; like magic its such a wonderful feelingI really like him I wish I could be more polite and friend;y with him . I do not kno what to do know.please guys help me agion I do not know what to do
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2006): Stay away from this man. We cant always help who we are attracted to but as you know he is married you have the chance to avoid getting into anything with him which could and more than likely will end up causing you a lot of heart ache.You need to get out more and make opportunities to meet other single men. Eventuaoully you will meet someone who you find just as attractive.Believe the happiness you will get from dating a single attractive man is worth the wait. I have previously been in a relationship with a married man. Such relationships never end happily. Initially you will be flattered and excited by the attention but eventually the fact he belongs to someone else, cant always see you will leave you feeling worthless, used and cheap. Be number one.. not the bit on the side. You have to value yourself more! You may not be in a relationship with him yet, but if you continue to flirt and he is the type of man who will have an affair, then it may just be a matter of time.. beware!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2006): Hi Im have the same situation, should i leave him, he also a married man, i felt hurts as well :-(he said will try to sort it out his marriage, but dont know how long, but will keep the feeling fresh, Im never met married man, this is the first time i had this situation, what can i do, what he said to me is true...I think im so stupid, im just his temporary love, right? :-(
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (15 June 2006):
Angel ron is verified as being by the original poster of the question hey guys listen thasnks for the adevice and you guys were right today he avoided my look when I smiled at him may be your right I need help I just do not know how to behave its difficvult I do not how to behacve towards him.Iam ju7st a bit upset at his response .
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reader, Angel ron +, writes (14 June 2006):
Angel ron is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys
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reader, bonym  +, writes (14 June 2006):
 My dear friend, STOP THIS. This infatuation you have with this guy i sgonna end in total disaster. He is MARRIED, so leave it be. There is nothing you can do. I have been there myself, but my sense of morality and self worth explicitly told me that there is no way I can see this man, he is with another woman and thats the conclusion of the whole matter. When I see the married man I fell for, he just doesnt do anything for me anymore, I told myself everyday it was wrong, I kept seeing his wedding ring, I kept imagining him in bed with another woman i.e. his wife until I thought what the hell am I wasting seconds, minutes and days of my life pining for a man who doesnt want me and can never be with me unless I become a homewrecker? Can you see my point? xXx
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (14 June 2006):
 No Angelron, he is married right ? and so are you ? From what I read on your last post, you are not happy in the relationship you are currently in, and that bares alot of how you are feeling regards to this married man. Your feeling empty and want some attention, and are seeking it but it not in the right places. You have the need to feel desired and want this from anywhere you can get it right now, i appreciate you are feeling lonely, at a loss and in your heart you want anyone to notice you, but you are causing yourself more heartache by fantasiing about a man that you know you cant have. You need to decide first of all what you are going to do about your current relationship. If its that bad and it cant be fixed, you need to get out, does your man know that you are unhappy ? If its beyond repair you need to stand up and be strong and get out. Secondly you need to push this married man out of your head, he is a distraction to you of what is really going on in your life and the fantasy is maybe helping you deal somehow with feeling crap in general. You run the risk of looking silly if you approach this man, he has kids a family and you dont want to ruin that, hes not on the market honey. You need to get some self confidence back and get out of the relationship you are in and start a fresh. Once you get out you will feel better, your feeling miserable inside and want somebody to love you, you need to love yourself first, do the right thing and end this relationship and it will help you on the road to becoming stronger, once you have done that you can start to build new relationships with friends, meet new people in all different avenues, but you need to make yourself feel better in other ways than the focus you are putting on this married man. Once you have moved on you will be able to find a man that you fancy and have fantasy's about that can also pay you the same attention. A married man isnt the way to go, find someone single with no baggage, someone thats free to love you in return, someone who will give you the attention you need. You may feel that some relate counselling will help to clear your head and find out what you really need and want, and take it a step at a time, but carry on this way and you will more hurt.
Take care
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reader, Anja +, writes (14 June 2006):
 Uh hummm um well does the meaning of marriage mean anything to anyone these days? Wake up girl and accept he is married, you can't have him he is married til death us do part and all that.
I'm guessing you don't really know yourself what the term married is, if you did than you would steer clear of him like FOREVER!!! Even if he recipricates your feelings and likes you bakck...it's not right, you should not under any circumstances encourage him.
Look at what happened when Adam let Eve eat the forbidden fruit from the tree, we now live in a world of sin due to this. Do you want to continue the fruits of sin in yourself and others? You have a choice. (I can tell you how to choose...just write to me if you want to know)
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (14 June 2006):
 dear reader. your playing with fire here you knwo that don't you?
have you ever thought that you might like him so much because you CAN'T! have him.
do you really want to be "the other woman" or worse break up someone happy home.
do you really know this guy?
and think of this, if he was to cheat on his wife with you who's to say he won't do the same to you one day.
My advice to you is to stay clear your just heading for a fall if you persue this.
think about this!!!!
all the best to you and if you need anythign else you can contact me direct
good luck xxx
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