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writes:I'm very lost now...I'm in love with a girl in my work place, but shes already been married. I dunno what to do now.. do you think its possible between me and her? We are considered very close friends but I never told her/anyone how I feel towards her. What should i do? I tried to forget about her but I can't do it...Please kindly advise =(
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (23 August 2008):
 It's not real clear ... is this girl married now or not? If not, there is no real reason why it can't work out between the two of you.
If she is married now, it's another matter. You should leave well enough alone and just be her friend unless she gives you some sort of really obvious and unambiguous signal that she is interested in becoming more than friends. Which is highly unlikely as long as she is married.
Don't try to get between a husband and wife. It only causes trouble. Find someone else. It's hard to give up the idea of being with someone you really care about, especially when you have to see them almost every day, but in the end it's best for all concerned.
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