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writes: Its been 4 days since my boyfriend has tried to take my bra off, finger me or even tried to have sex with me. I know its 4 days but he would try every night and he hasn't. Maybe a little odd but I like it when he would try, and I've been horny for the past several hours. How can I get him in the mood? Or maybe I should wait? I can't make up my mind, I fill in his needs. How, please how can I get him to fill mine just this one!?!?!?!? I'm the kind of chick that likes to tease my men, I did tease him last night but I got nothing from him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2008): maybe you ahev teased him to much and he has lost interest??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Hi Just2love, it's me again.. I like your Vincent, I like him very much... I remember when I thought he was a pervert...lol... :D but he's not like that, he's not like that at all. You choose well, he's a great guy. But it seems to me that he's very sensative, he gets bothered by all kinds of things, and he keeps things all bottled up. Please keep updating us on your story, and tell us how things are going with your both. Don't stop the teasing and flirting, you are in love and your having fun. I don't know what is going on with Vincent, he keeps lots of things locked up in his head. With this guy, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION, COMMUNICATION is the key. Just ask him whats the matter, say "Hey babes don't you want me no more"... Talk to him and find out what the problem is. As you discovered already, he has all types of strange ideas, and he deals with them in the wrong way. It's up to you babes, to find out what's bothering him, and set him back on the right track. We are wishing you and him well, because you both sound like wonderfull people, and we wish you happiness each and every day... :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2008): Great, please keep us posted on that conversation and its results...best of luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): Good! Playful teasing with seduction in mind it is.Well, if the phone rings and you're trying to get busy, the answering machine will pick up - and if there isn't such a machine, *that* will soon be corrected, won't it ;-). Unless there's some kind of ongoing family situation where he needs to be on-call, or unless he's a doctor or some such an is on-call for emergencies, I can't think of anything that can't wait for an hour or so for him to call back.I'll still repeat my advice that you and he need to sit and talk. This is bothering you enough to write about it, therefore it's bothering you enough to warrant a quiet talk. He can't help fix a problem he doesn't know about; if he's stressed and isn't feeling sexy himself, he wont' want to and won't necessarily see that this is a problem for you if you don't bring it up. Sometimes we're kind of .. well .. not so observant this way - I suspect you've seen this already, yes? So pick a quiet time when you're both as relaxed as you get a present, and talk to the man. He *will* appreciate being able to hear that something's up and be able to reassure you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): Hi again, J2l; OK, when you tease him, is it an encouraging tease, where after he gets all excited he gets what he wants, or is it a tease-and-getaway so he's left aroused and unsatisfied? I just want to be sure I understood what you're doing; one's OK, the other's definitely not if it happens often, it'll discourage him from trying.
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (23 August 2008):
 A guy will try and try, but only up to a certain point. If you keep saying "no", at some point even the stupidest male is going to get the idea that you are not interested and give up on the game. You may be tempting, but eventually he will understand that he's never going to succeed, so why should he keep trying?
Stop playing this game. Talk to him about what's on your mind. Don't offer what's not available. If you're willing to carry through, then the two of you may be able to reach an agreement about the "rules of the game" that at least give him some chance of getting what he wants while allowing you the thrill of the chase. But if he is always met with frustration, there's no payoff for him in continuing down that same road.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008): Hi, Just2love; do you tease him a little, or a lot? What kind of teasing? Is he tired of being teased, and isn't interested in playing what to him feels like a stressful game? Is there some other stress in his life right now, not related to you, that's got him preoccupied? Sounds like it's time for a quiet conversation with him, where you both speak your minds and that way, you've both got enough info to come to an agreement on how you'd each like your sex life to go.
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