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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello, basically, I'm in love with a guy who isn't my boyfriend.A few months ago, we dated for a few weeks, and it was one of the most amazing times of my life. We'd go back to his house, and just lie on his bed hugging. However, he was working crazy shifts for a week, and I got the impression he wasn't interested, and instead decided to go out with my now boyfriend. I like him, he's nice, and it's been about 5 months now, but I still love the other guy, and my boyfriend seems bored with me now. He texts me saying he misses me, and the other night, I got drunk, ended up going to his house and kissing him. He was drunk too, but as soon as he saw me he hugged me and held me hand. And whilst we were kissing, he told me he wanted to be with me and that he loves me. To be honest, the drink was probably talking on the last comment, but what shall I do? I'm not happy with my boyfriend at the moment. But I'm scared of throwing away 5 months. I know a relationship with the other guy would be amazing, I'm just so confused. Sorry this is really long.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2008): I'm the original poster :) Thank you!I guess I just needed to hear someone else confirm that I need to dump him.Wish me luck! :)
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reader, treats  +, writes (13 October 2008):
you need to be with the man you love. five months---it's not years. You're young. You have your whole life ahead of you. You should break up with ur "now" bf and go with the one you love. Love doesn't come around everyday. You should talk it out with the guy you love and see what he says. It's worth a try and like I always say "you never lose by loving, you lose by holding back"
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