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female
age
30-35,
*urt and heartbroken
writes:My bestfreinds boyfriend is sooo gorgeous and i like him but not up until last week did i find out he liked me too but the problem is, is that im going out with his bestfreind and he is going out with my bestfriend no one knows about our secret in liking eachother but i realyy love him and he tells me he loves her but also likes me. I dont know what to think i want to be with him even though he says he wants me he still stays with his girlfreind. im so confused and he has broken my heart once already !im sooo confused please help me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2007): I knew somebody in a simmilar situation and they decided to try and hide it from the other two but. It eventually came out and it turned out bad for them and all of there mutual friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): I'd just like to say what a great friend you are - talking like that with her boyfriend behind her back, and encouraging it.
He most likely won't break up with her and your left looking like a fool. What comes around, goes around - Think of her before you are so selfish to think you 'love' someone. You probably don't have a clue how to love, if you think that he loves you so much he's still with his girlfriend and stringing you along.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (18 October 2007):
You don't make a move (or accept a move)from your friend's boyfriend. And, if they ever break up, ask her first.
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Friends boyfriends are off limits no matter how you feel about them and the fact he hasnt broken up with her probably means he wont, do you really want to break up friendships because your in "love"? Nope if you dont want to be with your boyfirned leave him but dont make your friend unhappy by stealing her boyfriend
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Hi
Way too much complication going on in your life!
Why do you like all the complications and drama?
Friends guys are waaaaaaay off limits! You dont want to be labelled as a femme fetale!
I feel for you. You are in a bit of a predicament. Its not good. You need to realise that the saying 'bro's before ho's' counts for the oposite sex too and your friends should mean more than any guy.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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