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writes:I am a 19 year old guy in the navy. I met a guy in May 2006 and we got together in July. The majority of our time was spent apart due to me being in the navy. 8 months to the day that we were together, He told me that he didn't want to be with me anymore. He is about 1000 miles away from me even when I am in home port. We have been apart for about 2 weeks now, and he has found someone. They have been together for a week, and he has already cried because of him. His new boyfriend doesn't put him first and as he told me yesterday, this new guy isn't me. I am madly in love with this guy to the point that i would give everything up for him and he knows it. He loves me, but he wants someone that can hold him. I only have 2 years left in the Navy. What should I do?
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Hi
You sound such a lovely caring guy don't ever loose those qualities, first of all any relationship which is long distance is hard but you guys had been together for quite a while, now he has someone else it has only been 2 weeks and his new boyfriend has all ready made him cry this tells me he is not happy and has made a mistake but he needs to realise this himself...
If you can and I know this is going to be hard but don't call him anymore, let him think your so so busy with your own life having fun(even if your not).When he contacts you and starts telling you his problems tell him your really sorry but you can't talk your busy etc...
This will get him thinking trust me because it is out of character if he truely loves you he WILL want you back, but you have to be strong here babes, go out keep busy and keep your mind on other things, if he doesn't come back then he really wasn't worth waisting your precious time on and its cruel of him to expect you to listen to his love life problems when he knows you love him.
You go out there babes and enjoy life you will feel so so much better I promise,
Good luck and all the very very best,
Let me know what happens and don't call him,
Donna x
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