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writes:Okay, so here's the story.There's a guy I met a few years back while I was doing a project for school. Really nice guy, kinda reminds me of myself. Semi-emotionally troubled, confused, etc. The only problem is, while we did work on the project together, he lived about 4 hours from me. We met twice in person, and we hung out, and I really liked him, but my life went on back home, and so did his.Until about 6 months ago.I was relocated for my job, and now I'm only about an hour and a half or two hours from him. He came to help me with a work project last night, stayed the night, and left this afternoon... the only difference was... I dunno... I saw something different in him. I looked into his eyes and I couldn't look away. When he was holding me when we went to sleep, I didn't want it to end.However, reality struck fast and hard.He had to leave to do some things for his work a few hours ago, and that left me sitting in this empty house, alone, thinking of nothing but him. Something tells me that it'll never work, mainly because he leaves for New York next fall for work, and I'm in the south... but part of me never wants to be away from him again... Why did I have to have his help in the first place? I really think that I may have been better off never meeting him... I definitely wouldn't be in this emotional turmoil... and yeah... I don't know what to do with myself. Help! Reply to this Question
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reader, cd206  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 So he slept with you and then left you? It seems you don't have any reason to believe he won't come back. I'm not entirely sure what you're trying to say here- is it that you can't handle not knowing what's gonna happen between you? I agree thats the worst part of relationships but it's also a necessary part of the process.
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