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anonymous
writes:hello. my drama is that i have been dating this guy for three months but he lives in new jersey and i live in new york and we both work full time jobs. i only get to see him on weekends. it seems like he reserves fridays for his friends and then saturday and sunday for us. i just feel like he's not making enough time for me. i have told him once before that i would like to see him on weekdays if possible and i did make an attempt to do so but he has never made one yet. should i be worried that i only get to see him for only two days out of the week? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2007): i wudnt worry about it...it seems to me like he IS making time for u! i mean he's gotta also see his friends he cant suddenly drop them jus because he's met u. And u spend the whole wkend together. unless one of u moves/changes jobs its a little impractical to spend more time togethr.
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (20 January 2007):
 Unless the two of you are going to make a firmer commitment, and take your relationship forward I think what he and you are doing actually sounds ok. He sees his friends for one night and you for two. he works the other four, i mean, he needs a break if he is a full time worker.
Have you tried addressing this issue with him? I mean asking him if he wants to take this relationship forward? Maybe living together or that sort of thing?
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reader, cd206 +, writes (20 January 2007):
 I don't think so. Because of your geographical issue it's near impossible for you to spend a lot of time together. Unless you're up for moving in together or starting to work in the other's state it seems quite difficult for you to spend that much time together.
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