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writes:me and my boyfriend have been together 6 monthes. He keeps going on holiday without me and he has never offered to take me, he has been on 4 holidays and about to go on the 5th. Also, his parents came over last weekend and the weekend before but he said they know about me but i never got introduced to them and he wont even meet my parents because he said he is scared. (he is 28 and im 19). he said to me the other day his family thinks its a good idea to marry someone 10 years younger. We are really close and see each other loads but its small things like that, that make me doubt whether he is seroius about me, as he is from canada and is here to work, wotdo you guys think im really in doubt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 October 2007): Definately Get out!!! Im facing the same problem these days(should have asked on the site) but no need since i know it Is not worth to take other people time to answer a question like this.I broke out with my bf yesterday(even he wanted to accept or not). we were together for 4 months,He is also for work here,he caused me at least 3 months of hard time finding what he's intentions are (behind that sweet natured, always loving man)However he decided to go on holiday, and was telling me all the plans, never included me INTo the picture.I confronted him(not about holiday, but about ur communication when he will be away)and get the answer that computer may serve its purpose. ur may not answer like that, but i tell ou from experiance, When Man loves and Likes and have Serious intentions with woman , Be sure he is Offering her to spend the holiday together9and not alone as he would have chances to chase around other girls,subcounsously hoping to find better one). He Has not serious intentions,Be sure Of IT!!! Dont have any doubts about!
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reader, Dextro69 +, writes (16 October 2007):
 I'm 30 and my fiance is now 21 whilst i would never go away without her (other than for work) i can understand the parents thing when i met her parents for the first time i was mega bricking it (at the time she was only 17 me 27) and i was looked upon as a dirty old man. but in time i was accepted by them and they treat me as one of the family. what you need to ask yourself is can you see yourself with him in 10 - 20 years if not have your fun and go before you both get hurt.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): Get out! I just got out of a year long relationship (we were engaged) a week ago. He is 34, I am 24. He would go on 2 month vacations without me! I would never be happy with a guy like that because he never made me a priority. He said i was always invited but knew full well i couldn't go because of work. He was such a loser! And he always told me that his counselor told him that he would date girls ten years younger because he lost out on his childhood because his mom was an alcoholic. Well, he needs to grow up sometime! And im not going to be his stay at home girlfriend/fiance/wife while he gets all the fun. I would say no way to that guy!
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