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writes: Boyfriend lives in London and I live in Canada. What do I do? But I'm only 16. I just got out of a 3 year relationship and thought I knew what love was until I met this guy. He makes me feel so great inside, but we can't see each other in person, we have to interact with each other on webcam and email each other. I love him so much, I didn't know that love could be so powerful, and from a guy I met on the internet. I have talked to family, so I know he's not a bad guy. We've been thinking about 2 years from now when I can go down and see him and we think it'll be great. The only thing is, just before we met, he robbed someone and now is facing a lot of court stuff and if he has a criminal record he won't be able to come down here at all. He said that I have helped him become a better person, and doesn't want to lose me. What do I do? I love him so, but I can't deal with waking up and feeling empty inside and depressed...
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reader, pops +, writes (18 June 2005):
Good Grief, girl. You are only 16 ! Give yourself some time to grow up. You are barely old enough or physically mature enough to know anything about sex, or relationships. Give yourself the time to learn by dating a lot of different guys. Take it easy. don't think you have to jump in bed with everyone, and anyone. Spend some time exploring yourself to learn what turns you on, which erogenous zones give you pleasure, and where they all are. Spend time with girls your own age, and talk to them about their experiences. Make a set of rules for yourself that you will always obey, even when you'd like to forget them. Whatever the rules you set for yourself, you will be happier in the long run for following them. Train your body to respond to your touch, and other sensations. You will only be a teenager for a couple of more years. Take the time to learn about yourself and don't rush being grown up. It comes too soon, and lasts the rest of your life. You can't get your childhood back. Don't miss it by trying to be grown up too soon. Pops
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reader, Your big sis +, writes (10 June 2005):
 Let him go. My God! Are we women so hard up for anyone to tell us that we need a man to tell us that we are beautiful and lovable that we would even consider a convicted felon? Honey, you don't need that! Of course, he says he needs you! There is no one else in their right mind who would consider him. He's a L O S E R! Get it? A robber with a criminal record. And his family says he's a good guy, huh? Yeah, they're probably losers too. You are only 16. Save yourself for a respectable young man who can give you what you need. Instead of that pathetic thing in jail who only wants to take from you... Don't get caught up in that madness.
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