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writes:I am 30 years old and was in a long term relationship which ended about 1.5 years ago very suddenly as my partner walked out on me and had a new girlfiend a week later.I have met somebody else and I think the world of him, he is a great man and I really hoped it would work for us, the thing is I enjoy spending time with him but in the bedroom I don't feel attracted to him sexually, I don't know if I still have feelings for my ex or if I just see my new man as a friend. He is becoming fed up of a platonic relationship and wants things to go further or break up, I don't know what I want..help please!
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reader, Curiousbynature  +, writes (13 August 2008):
If you dont want him sexually you are going to fight alot. A lot of fights never begin because you have sex with your man. Get out... it cant be a good sign.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2008): my friend had the same problen 3 years later still the same a lot of money spent in counceling and they now argue a lot because he wants more sex.
i would say keep your eyes open and look for someone else. sexless relationships are terrible over time.
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reader, charlie k +, writes (13 August 2008):
Been there. Sex will never be good if you're not attracted to him. You're not just going to hurt yourself, but him to in the long run. My advice, move on!!
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