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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes: Hi- So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 3 years now and we have an amazing relationship. We get along great, we live together, we dont fight and he is everything I want in a man. However, two times during our relationship I have gone out with friends when he is not around and I end up flirting and kissing a random guy. It doesnt go further than that but I'm wondering why I am doing this? It would never happen if I wasn't drinking, I just dont know what happens to my judgment. I feel terrible the next day when I realize what I have done. I dont want this to ever happen again because I would never want to lose him, so how do I stop myself before doing something so disrespectful?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (16 February 2009):
dont go out or take him with you, to be honest this is a disgrace! i dont have the perfect relationship but i would never do this, you dont even deserve a guy if you are gonna treat him like this. you need to get your act together! i'm glad you feel gulity! dont go out and dont drink if you do go out! theres a name for people like you! if you dont want to be in the relationship then have the respect to tell him and not go behind his back.
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