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writes:so the other day i went to one of my best friends house. we were just hanging out, watching a movie in his room. his parents werent home though. we were just cuddling at first but then he started to caress me, and i didnt stop him. he started touching me all over, and i the same to him. we were making out, then stopped, but only because we had to go run a quick errand. he was gonna take me home, but i realized i had left something in his house, so we went back. we were just there and he was laying on his bed watching tv. he asked me to join him, and even though i knew what was going to happen i did it anyways. He took off my clothes and caressed me all over, and i did the same to him. he began rubbing all up on me, and humping me but we thats as far as iit went, because i was a little weirded out. i mean hes my best friend. was that like super weird or am i overreacting now that i realize what we did?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): It happened to me too, well he isnt my BEST FRIEND but I knew him and we arew good friends. Hun, for me it started out with a night of making out, to a night of having sex (losing my virginity to him) and then more sex. Now, I am in a friends with benefits relationship with him.
You will have to think about what you want. Dont end up like me. I am not saying that i am in a bad position but THINK OVER a 100 times before doing anything further coz once you DO THE ACT, its addictive, you wanna do it more and more. If you want to be a "FWB" with him, go ahead, till it dosent hurt you and him. If you both decide on a relationship, thats even better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): I remember reading somewhere that most people's first sexual encounters are with the same gender. This isn't weird and you shouldn't overreact. You have the rest of your life to figure out what your sexual preferences and this was one of those first experiments. Trying out new things and figuring out what you like and desire is one of the fun things in life.
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reader, Shade'sGirl +, writes (7 December 2008):
If you were a little weirded out that's natural, to be honest i'd feel the same with my male friends!
But if you let him do it doesnt that mean like on a self-conscious level that you WANTED him to do it? And then in turn HE wanted you to do it too?
I think you two should sit down and talk about it or, if that'd be like seriously awkward, then think to yourself whether you two are friends are whether you find that you're both closer than that.
I guess it's like under the surface you both wanted to, and in the spur of the moment you did, i know it must feel weird but if you didnt stop him doesnt that mean you thought it was alright?
Hope my advice helps ^^;
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