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anonymous
writes:hello, im 44 and am having two affairs with married men i myself are single with one daughter, i dont really feel i want these affairs but feel guilty about finishing them i have tried changing my phone no but they still get in touch what should i do as i really have no interest in these men now?
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reader, thinkb4  +, writes (20 March 2011):
Two married men? If you wanted to end it all,then you would. How can you feel guilty about finishing with them and have no thought about the mens wifes? Two,both married. Suprise Suprise,but if you stop having sex with them,they will finish with you and then the problem is solved. Dont kid yourself that they see you as anything more than an easy romp. If you turn up at their door,they will deny knowing you or call you a slut.
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reader, LeahLeah  +, writes (20 March 2011):
Try telling their wives. That will get them off of your back. Unless of course they love you. Then they will leave her and try to be with you. But that's not a pretty scene either. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2011): You feel guilty about finishing the affairs? you should be feeling guilty about being in it more like..Just tell these men directly, no messing about that you do not wish to continue this liaison anymore...I think they still sense your resolve is weak, which is why they get in touch....Strengthen you resolve and leave, dont look back ...End it with absolutely no contact with this men...
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reader, MamaBear +, writes (19 March 2011):
A little honesty will go a long way! I suggest you just tell each married guy what you told us. Where does any guilt come in from telling someone that your feelings have changed. Or, has he bought you a house or something extravagant in exchange for your sexual favors. And, think about your daughter - she deserves better from her mother. And, you deserve better for your self worth. Think of all the time you will have to look for relationships with both of these married men out of your life. Two sexual affairs take time and energy - time that could be put towards your daughter! You did not say how old this daughter is but she will be eventually moving on in her own life. Spend your time with her now.
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