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anonymous
writes:Hi there,Actually I have got two questions for you...I'm 20, and I have been in a lesbian long distance relationship for more than two years now. My girl and I see one another 3 or 4 times a year and that for 5 days every visit. There was a time when I used to masturbate multiple times during the day in a hope to get rid of stress that way. It worked for a while, but lately, I don't really feel satisfied afterward anymore, and so I rarely masturbate.However, being in a long distance relationship, when sometimes six months go by until we see each other, leaves me without intimacy for quite a while, which is bad when you're longing for it. I have innumerable hot flashes a day because of this, and so my first question would be, is there any way to reach sexual satisfaction and sedation in my situation when I'm not with my girl? I don't use toys, and I'm not interested in experimenting with someone else.My second issue/question has to do with when we are together. My girl easily reaches orgasm with me, but... I can't. Thus far, the only way I have managed to reach it is with one finger of hers inside me and her using her mouth and lips to stimulate my clitoris... and that's happened only twice in two years of all those sexual encounters. I get easily frustrated with myself for taking that long to even feel orgasm building. So, is there any way to improve my girl and mine's sex life and make me reach orgasm faster/easier and find satisfaction when I'm with her, too?Thanks...
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reader, lovebird1  +, writes (5 June 2011):
Hi there,
I lived in a relationship with a woman for quite a long time. And I ask myself - why do you want to reach orgasm faster?
My ex was quite "slow" but I loved to go down on her for a really long time, to stimulate, massage, everything.. sex is not a race, so enjoy the ride and don't stress yourself. I still get the best orgasms from the finger-in-me and lips-on-my-clit combination, why change that? Why don't you ask for this more often rather than try to avoid it by having orgasms "easier"?
About the long distance thing.. it sure is difficult. Maybe naughty messages via mobile, dirty pictures, or skype-date? I think this can be very erotic..
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