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writes:For that past few months, I've had a few erotic dreams about my girlfriend's younger sister. My girlfriend is 21 and her sister is 19. We chat alot online and I sometimes go crash at her place out of town when we go skiing together. I just want to know what I should do about these dreams and if they mean anything.Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 Hey sweetness,
Outside of your dreams, do you actually FEEL anything for her sister? Or does she not interest you at all? I have erotic dreams all the time, and some of the weird reoccuring dreams involve Drew Carey and Alex Trebek. AHHH! Especially Drew Carey, I swear I don't have any deep seeded love or attraction to him. Who's Line Is It Anyway is sort of funny, but that's where my love for him STOPS!
Sometimes we just have weird dreams. If you don't acton it or care to act on it, I don't think it's much of a problem. I have bizarro dreams too.
xxIndia
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reader, cd206  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 Do you love your girlfriend? If the answer is yes then don't worry. We all have dreams that make no sense sometimes. It doesn't mean anything.
CD
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (13 February 2007):
Well, they could mean nothing, or something. You could secretly like her but have been ignoreing and burying your feelings. Think about it, do you like her ? Is she better looking or more fun than your girlfriend ? . If you think you like her, then dont crash at her place anymore. What if she tryed it on with you ?, would you push her off or would you go to bed with her. Because if for one secound you think you might do something with her, save your girlfriend SERIOUS heartbreak, and leave her. Staying away from BOTH of them. It would hurt your girlfriend ALOT more if you slept with her sister than it would breaking up with her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): I don't think it means anything. You must remember in dreams you do not have your ego sitting and judging you as you do in an awoken state. I mean, normally, you may find yourself having a sexual thought about your gfs sister but your ego will judge that as wrong and you will repress it.
In the dream world you are free to act out sexual desires. Repressed thoughts are "leaked" out in to your dreams.
It doesn't mean you have to act on them. Keep them to yourself and enjoy them - if they are enjoyable that is!
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reader, TygersDream  +, writes (13 February 2007):
 THey indicate that you have a crush on her sister, that's for sure. Of course they're harmless if you don't act upon them, but at the same time you don't want to be screaming her name when you're having sex with your girlfriend!
Ask yourself if there's anything lacking in your relationship with your girlfriend. Everything's alright with her, right?
Since you're so worried about it, I'd restrict your relationship with her sister to it's most minimal. Block her on your contact list so you don't talk to her, for example. Don't stick around and have a chat with her when you sleep over at their house. Remember that she's NOT your girlfriend and concentrate on the relationship you DO have.
Until then, Good luck on outgrowing your crush :)
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