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writes:Im really unsure wether im still in love with my x we were together for over a year and he made me so happy and since i split up with him even though i spilt up with him as i thought i was no longer in love with him now since we split up ive not been truly happy .i still meet up with him and called him and i felt the happyest when i was with him , and a number of times ive wanted to be back with him but was too scared incase i was just confused .However when he told me he had a new partner i was very upset and couldnt sleep and now i think about him all the time i get angry that he doesnt talk to me much anymore and i miss him being there.I also get upset alot about it ,but im unsure wether this is just because hes got someone new and i cant be the same with him.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (19 October 2007):
 sorry mate, but it looks like you let a goodun get away.
But there is nothing you can do about it now, you did break up with him, and now he has met someone else.
If the situation were reversed, would you want your new boyfriend being at the beck and call of his ex girlfriend ?
You just need to reassess your situation and take a good look at what you expect from a relationship, why did you split up with this guy in the first place? Why do you want him back? You may have to be honest with yourself and admit its because another girl has taken him.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (18 October 2007):
 Dear Anon
sorry to say this but it is all your fault, you loved him,played with his mind, then you did not love him,(broke his heart) and now he has some one you, NO the only thing that is bothering you is the fact that some one else has him, and they are showing him the love he deserves and the affection you were not able to give him, because you could not make up your selfish mind what was best for you, and look ware it has got you no ware.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (18 October 2007):
Lesson learned. Start over and find a new bf. Love is never the same way twice.
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