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writes:I am going to a funeral next week. I have not been to many of them(lucky me). I would like some tips on two things. What to wear and what type of flowers to send. There are internet sites with this info but it is nice to get more personal pointers.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2008): I think something quite simple and classic, such as a plain dress or trouser suit. Even a skirt and jacket.
Pick dark colours, such as black, navy, burgundy, dark green or grey tones. Also, take into consideration how cold it might be. Churches can be quite drafty.
With flowers, ask either a family member or contact the funeral directors whether it is family flowers only and if they are asking for donations to go to a charity of their choice.
Hope you manage to find something. Try it all on before the day, so you don't to worry about it.
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reader, TaylorChu  +, writes (12 July 2007):
 You wear what you want. If you knew the person's favorite color, wear it. Don't worry about what people might think because you arent there for them you are there to remember the person. Also, send whatever flower you desire.
People make such a fuss about what is appropriate and not appropriate in funeral ceremonies but it doesnt matter. Sadly the person is gone, everything else should be considerate and tasteful but no need to follow tradition because it doesnt matter at the end of the day.
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reader, Frank B Kermit +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Traditionally, I would suggest wearing black. Perhaps a black one piece dress. Some families would consider it disrespectful if people wear revealing, sexy, or night club outfits of any kind at funerals.
In terms of flowers, it is becoming common to make a donation to the research of the cause of death. So if the person dies of cancer, a donation to the cancer research society would be a good thought. You make the donation in the deceased person's name (dedication).
-Frank B Kermit
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reader, Beckto +, writes (11 July 2007):
 Call your local florist and they'll know what to send.
Black isn't necessary for an outfit, but dark is good. Dark grey, navy, ... etc. A suit,... something more like what you would wear on Sunday for church or Friday synagogue.
I have worn suits, usually, or a rather demure dress. Something that covers the knees and shoulders especially.
Closed toed shoes are better too.
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reader, sweeite  +, writes (11 July 2007):
my nan passed away lst yeah at her funeral i wore smart black bottoms and a black top. I carried a single black rose
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