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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: this girl i really like has recently started talkin to me. she's shy so i have to kinda go to her and talk. we're goin to see a film. we talk with ease but i have trouble findin any topics to talk about. i know this may sound stupid but i dunno what to say. can people give me as many ideas as possible! thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2007): Well, get to know her first.
You need to know what shes interrested in.
That gives you something to talk about,
also, the things she mentioned, is more to talk about.
So pick out of whatev. she had to say.
That way, youll know atleast she wont be bored with it.
If you find after a while, her answers are getting sweet and short.
Move onto something else she had mentioned.
Try to be yourself too,
but try not too blabber about yourself too much,
only if she asks.
-And the only way to make her not so shy,
is to make her feel comfortable around you,
make her really see you like her for who she is.
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