A
female
age
36-40,
*otinthesane
writes:I'm going out of my mind!!! He wants me, he soesn't want me, he wants me, then he doesn't...Why is he so SCARED!!!First he was afraid of getting close to me because of some screwed up relationships in the past, then he took a chance. Then he realized he was still afraid of getting to close, then he swore he wouldn't be scared anymore and that he really wanted to be with me and things were great for over a year. Now he's gone again because he's afraid of my son. He says that he's been planning a future with me, but never factored in my son and now he doesn't know what to do. I love this guy so much. We are, dare I say, perfect for eachother. We've never even had a real argument. I can't stand the thought of losing him, but I just don't know what I can say to make the fear go away. Reply to this Question
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reader, a-g55  +, writes (1 June 2008):
 Do something mindblowing. Symbolize to him that your here to say. plan something special that proves what you would say. for example buy something that has something connecting you like a pendant necklace with your photos for example. then have the chat with him and be very very sure of yourself and confident. explain what you have jus written down there in words whilst giving him a momentum to back it up! if that doesnt work then i dont know what will. FIGHT FOR IT!!!!!!(i dont mean punch up lol)
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