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writes:I am going crazy..recently my girlfriend just dissapeared to get with a close friend of hers and idk wut 2 do! I think about her all the time and it hurts me to know that shes with sumone else and all that I thought we had was just nothin we were together for about 9 months..I cant get over her every time the phone rings I wish that its her..I need help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): I do feel sorry for you, i dont know why people do these things. It is so hurtful. People say we always hurt the ones we love and it is so true. Have you no contact with her at all? If she came back i know you would be chuffed but i would be hurt. You have to be strong and turn your back on her if she does that. Dont be a push over or a soft touch, you deserve better and dont be walked on like that. You are a lovely person. Get out into the world with your family and friends and turn your back on this evil little miss who thinks she can play with your mind. Dont have her back even if she comes crawling down the street.
xxTake care
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reader, kat113091 +, writes (2 April 2008):
Stuff like this is very hard to deal with. I know from my own experience. But if you say you love her like you really love her than you should want her to be happy even though it is not with you. It just wasn't meant to be and I know this probably isn't exactly what you wanted to hear but it is the truth. You will find someone, we all do. I know you feel lost and confused and you feel like a part of you is missing and she seemed to have took the happy part but with stuff like this you need to relize that you can be better off alone. You will find someone perfect for you and she might even make you happier than this other girl did. Im really sorry for what happened try getting out and trying new things you will meet somebody... Life is short so we need to live it to the fullest!! Good luck
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reader, Jmo +, writes (2 April 2008):
 Did she really disappear? Like, GONE? I've "disappeared" before (several years ago) and to this day, not many people know where I disappeared to (including my boyfriend at that time. Actually several people thought I was dead, but anyways...) I'm not sure if this s in anyway applicable but if it is, you can send me a message and maybe I could give you some insight into the "flight" mode of the female mind. If she's just making herself incommunicado, there's probably a slim to none chance she wants to speak with you. I'm sorry but it's true. Either way, you have my sympathy and stop waiting by the phone or it will kill you. Try and distract yourself in the meantime. Hang out with friends,. etc.
-Jmo
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