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*ulie1981
writes:hi,i really need help.i'm supposed to getting married in the summer of 2008 and i meet up with an ex boyfriend of mine and now i'm confused because i have falling in love with this guy again. meaning i am in love with two guys and don't know what to do.my question is can you please give me some advice?i have known my ex for almost 11 years and my fiancee for 7 years and i have loved my ex for as long as i have known him.but i don't want to hurt any of them.so... what should i do?thank youjulie
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reader, julie1981 +, writes (9 March 2007):
julie1981 is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni just want to take the time to thank everyone who has helped my.
so... THANK YOU everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2007): You should turn your back on your ex and concentrate on your fiance. You two split up for a reason and that reason won't of gone away. If you did go back you have to remember just how it was, bad times as well as good. People never change so remember the qualities that you didn't like about him. The ex probably get a kick (if he knows) from the fact that even want to be around him, when you have a fiance. Walk away and never look back.
Take care
xx
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reader, xcharlottex  +, writes (4 March 2007):
I think you can love two people but you cant be IN love with more than one person...I think you know deep down which one you're supposed to be with.
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reader, Farris +, writes (4 March 2007):
 I'm kinda in the same situation.
My best advice would be to just stay with your fiancé, and steer clear of your ex. There's a reason why you broke up right? And now you're with this guy that you want to marry.
I know it's hard, and that you love him. But the best way for no one to get hurt is just to avoid the situation completely.
That's what I've done... I moved on with my life, even though I think I will always love my ex. I won't let his memory ruin my new life.
I hope you can do the same.
Good luck and best wishes.
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