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writes:im 15 and gay and so in love with this boy.but he says hes strait but in class he be looking at me and sometimes smiles.but he allways talking bout how he goes out with his girl.but when he fround out i was gay he acked different.sould i tell him how i feel Reply to this Question
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reader, red_headed_babe +, writes (28 February 2010):
 I think it's best if you leave it alone for now. If he's straight, telling him would only make things awkward for the both of you, and he could end up cutting off all contact with you because the situation is so uncomfortable. However, if he shows more intrest in you, like calling/texting you a lot, asking if you want to spend time together, I'd tell him. :]
I know how confusing stuff like this can be, I've gone through it. If you want to talk feel free to message me. :]
Hope this helps, and good luck.
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reader, HarryFlashman +, writes (28 February 2010):
No, you shouldn't tell him -- all you would do is make him feel uncomfortable to no purpose, since he's straight. It would likely just make your life worse, not better.
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reader, followtheblackrabbit  +, writes (28 February 2010):
 No, don't tell him. I know its hard and I can understand where your coming from...but if he's straight, there's no getting him. He'd be going against his nature...and well, that wouldn't be right. There's someone out there for you. Don't give up on that. And though you may think that this boy is the only one you can love right now, that will pass when you meet someone who wants to be with you and can be with you. When you love and are loved in return, its the best feeling in the world. Best of luck...
xo
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reader, AuntyAlexxmo  +, writes (27 February 2010):
 If this guy has said he is straight then as hard as it is you have to respect that, the fact that he sometimes looks at you does not mean he has feelings for you. im sorry as this is probably not what you want to hear, but sometimes life is like that. =] x
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reader, Naughynnice +, writes (27 February 2010):
I think ur shouldnt tell him i mean if hes staright there is really no point :( mayb if u just give it some time u are little may ur just confused -best luck chow :)
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