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writes: I'm a 15 yr old girl and I get on really well with guys, since I was very little. Most of my friends are guys because the girls at my school are a bit too girly and shrieky for me. But it means that I find it hard to see the gap between friends, compassion, and fancying. I get really confused about it and get upset with myself. What can I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, smeedle +, writes (25 February 2006):
friends are better than boyfriends at your age, when you have a conection with someone you will feel it and so will he so for now just hang out and look outside your circle of friends for a boyfriend as it is more healthy, if you date someone in your circle of friends they may gossip about you, it may change the dynamics of the friendships and when you split up and you will it makes things really awkward.
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reader, sumgirlediting +, writes (25 February 2006):
You are still very young. I know it sounds hard but now is the time for you to start thinking about what YOU want and not about boys. Save your time for when you get older. Don't you see all of these broken hearts posted to this site. That's what happens to you when boys turn into men. STAY FAR AWAY from them they can lower your self esteem in the drop of a smile.
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