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*onestandhumble
writes:i have been in a relationship for almost three years. i made some mistakes and now i am fighting to get my man back. He has forgiven me but still thinks i could do it again. How do i prove to him that i am not going to do it again? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2008): hey,
if there aint trust in a relationship there is nothing. he may say he has forgiven you but yet you still feel insecure. best to lay it on the line to him, either he gives you 100% trust or you walk.
If you have learnt from ya mistakes then a fresh relationship is probably what you need
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2007): well he is gonna go back to you all u have to do is just wait. you cant make someone love you! but, u need to just give him his space. and well just wait and see what happens. i hope things go well for you!
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reader, honestandhumble +, writes (15 April 2007):
honestandhumble is verified as being by the original poster of the question All of your advice is great. I've started to put some of the ideas to work and i'm hoping for the best. I'll let you guys know what happens but it might be a while.
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reader, charlieswoofas  +, writes (14 April 2007):
 All i can say is having been in similar situation, the only thing you can do is make sure your mistakes do not happen again, he will praise you when he feels he trusts you enough. But once again it will take a long time so just keep positive enjoy thinking about youre future and make sure you do not give him any more reasons not to trust you,
charlie harris.
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (14 April 2007):
 I agree with CD.
You haave to make sure you HAVE learnt from all of this and prove it to him the best you can. You are lucky in someways, as not alot of people can do what he is doing once that trust is gone so make the most of it.
Once trust is lost, it can be harder to regain it and this will never be the same again either. Just make sure you have learnt from your mistakes and prove to him how much you mean to him.
The rest is in his court, hopefully he will see your efforts and start to really trust you like he wants to trust you, and feel cormfortable with that.
Keep at it and goodluck for your future..
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reader, cd206 +, writes (14 April 2007):
 Trust can't be regained in five minutes. It's a long hard road to get someone to be able to trust you again. All you can do in the time it takes him is to do NOTHING he might see as untrustworthy and tell him how you feel about him every day. And cross your fingers.
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2007): If ur man understands ur forgiveness and respect that u are truly sorry then he needs to move on and start a new fresh with u being in his life.and maybe he's feeling insecure thats all and u need to just let him know ur there for him thats all.he just needs to feel that loving and security thats all.
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