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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:My bf of 10 months used to talk to me on msn but we changed to skype back in january. I kept noticing that his msn was always on with 'away' and 'i'm not here right now' as his status. We met online last summer so i assumed the 4 other women on there were added before we had met. However, back in march i noticed another woman had been added as a friend, i know that it could be an outstanding friend invitation that she may have only just got round to accepting, so i'm not too upset about that, but i did query it with him. He said they were friends from a long time ago and couldnt understand how it had only just come up as friends and that he talked to her occasionally and she has a bf now. He then changed his msn status to offline and i've never seen him on there since as we talk by skype when we're not together.But since then i notice two more contacts on skype and assumed they were just contacts with work or friends etc.I've been a little careful with him about other women for other reason I cant put my finger on so i try to check up on him sometimes.. i know this is bad but i'm not sure about him so sometimes i see if he really is home when he says he is.last Tuesday I text him about my evening at around 10pm but got no answer so i went to his place to see if his car was there and it wasnt. it was late so i sat around the corner and decided to send another text asking if he wanted to skype for a little while, by now it was 11pm. He text back after 10 minutes and said he was at the shops buying tobacco and would skype in a little while. so i know i'm stalking but i waited to see him drive back and then i went home and after 20 minutes we started chatting on skype. The strange thing is, he lost a contact on skype that night (i only see the number of contacts, no info about them) and also one of the women who lives locally to us that was his 'friend' on msn also is not on his msn list of friends anymore.I'm wondering if he was seeing her that night and my texting and skype request disturbed them? I know i'm feeling a bit paranoid about him but also he wont introduce me to anyone in his family or local friends.. his excuse is that he has gone back to live at home and doesnt want the questions from his parents such as.. 'are you seeing anna tonight? or have you seen anna? etc, which i can understand really, but am i being paranoid about him losing a contact on skype and also msn in one night when i seem to have called him home to skype me? If so should i talk to this women to find out any truth? i think i know where she lives, I'm not interested in making any scenes or crying etc i'm just wanting to be peaceful in my mind and know if there is anything going on with my bf. i'm feeling insecure about his love for me because he doesnt let me into his life. He always comes to my house when we see each other which is a couple of times a week.any thoughts would be welcome, and thanks.
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