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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey everyone, i am in a big dilemma and really need your help guys. I am currently working in an organization with my bf, whom i know from the last two years. Earlier it was fine, we both were working in the same batch. From the last week, things are not working in my favour. I tend to get nervous easily and i am a very sensitive girl. I often cry at my workplace (honestly,i myself dont like it. But i cant help it). Now, the problem is, recently, i have been shifted to another batch because of the same morale problem and my bf is still working with the same people. Moreover, he is moving ahead of me (that's nice but i always feel like i am good for nothing). There is a girl in his batch, she is oversmart but really pretty and dumb..she always plays games around me and my bf. I have often seen him staring at her. :( i have also spoken about it with him a lot of times and he always says that he loves me and he didnt stare at her but i know he watches her in a secretive manner. We have had so many arguments related to the same stuff. Now, i am insecure about my position at my workplace due to my tendency of getting nervous frequently. I am also jealous of that girl, though i myself, am pretty. I do get compliments for that. But i dont know how to handle the whole situation where i am nowhere in his batch and he is enjoying in his new batch with that pretty girl. I am really upset. I need your help to make me understand what i should do now. I love my bf and i know he also loves me but i am not in his batch and that girl in his batch, makes me feel more upset. thanx for all your help. regardsxyz
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reader, Love Byte +, writes (2 September 2011):
Hi,
Doubting without any solid proof will only hurt you. It's natural of you to be insecure but at the same time you need to have trust in your guy that he is "only yours".
Ask yourself the same thing & I am sure you will find answer.
All the best..
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