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writes:I am engaged, and am for the most part happy with my fiance. There are some small issues but nothing that would cause us to split.But for a while now, I have found myself falling for another man too. He is my fiance's best friend, who will be the best man at our wedding. He seems to feel the same way. We spend time together, we have a lot in common, and yes I fancy him. But honestly I love my fiance and know nothing will happen, I can't be a cheat.Why am I feeling like this? I fantasise about him all the time...:-(
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2007): You are wanting something that you can't have. Perfectly normal. If it were me, I'd just try to avoid his best friend altogether after the wedding.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): my advise is that you are in love with the best friend...i would call off the wedding, and acess the situation...otherwise you'll be living with years of regret.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2007): Dont even go there. I left my childs father of 5yrs as i fell for his best mate. He gave me vibes of feeling exactly the same. i couldn't even let my boyfrind touch me or see me naked when i was feeling for his mate. i couldn't sleep with him or even kiss him.
We spent a night together a while after the split. things seemed perfect. untill the next day. he could'nt cope with it. knowing that i was his best mates ex and that i had left my ex for him. my ex now does't even speak to me and his mate is akward with me too. but they are fine with each other. I seem like the bad one. I've learnt now it was lust and a fantasy. is that what you want. you say you have small issues with your man, work on them, dont give up on them for a fantasy.
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