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I'm falling for my friend's husband...

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Question - (11 March 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *allingangel writes:

I need help! I started working with this girl about two years ago we don't work together anymore but we hang out. But I have a problem, I'm falling for her husband! He's super sweet guy and very sexy. We flirt quit a bit and when we have been drinking he's very flirtasious with me. I don't want to stop hanging out with them and I think they're a great couple but I need help!!

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (11 March 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

all that lies ahead is a world of hurt. What do you think will happen here? Apart of course from losing a good friend and being labelled a homewrecking hussy. Seriously, in your situation if you don't think you can control yourself stay away from them. You are not entirely to blame here either, what is this guy doing flirting with you as well, if things were great between he and your friend he would only have eyes for her.

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A female reader, Dawnie United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2008):

Dawnie agony auntKeep him as a friend, what you see as flirting is probably just him being friendly. He is off limits, remember that.

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (11 March 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntYou need to show a bit of self control. If you cant keep these feelings to yourself and not try to damage their relationship, keep away from them.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2008):

I think you need to put your feelings on the back burner on this one. She's your friend and they are married. Do you want to be responsible for ruining their marriage? And if he was to leave her for you could you guarantee that he would't leave you for the next home wrecker? He may be super sweet and super sexy and flirty but the fact is that he's off limits. You're the kind of friend that women like me fear. You have no consideration for your fiends feelings and as long as you're happy that's all that matters, right? Be a woman and find your own man.

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