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*eatachi
writes:Hello again.My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 2 months, and his friends say I'm his first grlfriend. The problem is, I've been in quite a few relationships, and he's still new to the whole thing, but my feelings for him just get stronger and stronger every day. I'm afaraid I might be falling for him, and despite his kind nature, and what he says he feels, I'm afraid he's going to want to date around a bit, and I'll be left behind, with a broken heart. I'm definately not going to break up with him, but is there any way I can better prepare myself, just in case he decides he's like to "gain a little more experience first"?Thanks in advance. Reply to this Question
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reader, nologo  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 "gain a little more experience first"
Who is thinking about it: he or you?
It sounds like you are expecting him to think of it, but why?
You have been going out for almost 2 months as you say here.
So if you still do not trust him, maybe you should separate?
And guess who will be left behind, with a broken heart then.
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reader, Donnatella  +, writes (21 June 2007):
 As you are slightly more experienced in relationships than he is he isn't giong anywhere. If he says he has strong feelings for you and you dont believe him then maybe you dont feel that the relationship has potential. Just slow down and concentrate on getting to know the guy better. He will appreciate the attention and you wont always have to be second guessing what he is thinking.
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