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writes:I think I've fallen for a guy. I actually enjoy laughing at his bad jokes that others dislike and I think he has a nice personality. Sometimes, I feel like he has feelings for me too. I mean he approaches me and talks to me and stuff. But I'm not sure if he likes me at all and maybe he just likes me as a friend? I've no idea if he has a girlfriend or not either. Any advice? I just want some advice. Thank you. :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2015): The only way you are going to know if he likes you, is to talk to him when he tries to talk to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2015): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSo sorry for the late update! Thank you all so much for your advice, I really appreciate it!
Update:
Recently, he started to compliment me a lot. He also tried to talk to me. Does that mean anything? He seemed to wantwant my attention too. He also stares at me more frequently. Every time he sees me he would also greet me.
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reader, CattyCat  +, writes (10 March 2015):
 The fact you don't even know if he has a girlfriend suggests you may not know him that well.
Get to know him more, his life etc, before you decide to take things any further
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2015): By the way, if he has a girlfriend; you would see her with him. Don't you think? If he isn't letting on he likes you, don't ask other people. They'll tell him you're asking about him; then you have to be ready to explain, if he asks you why? Right? Keep other kids out of it. Just keep talking to him so you get more practice to overcome your shyness; and learn how to be brave enough to talk to boys you like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2015): Everyone is suggesting a note. Then what's supposed to happen after he reads it? You've got to "talk" once he knows what's on your mind. Then what?
A constant game of staring, blushing, and looking-away is what five year-olds do!
When he talks to you, keep up the conversation. Stop laughing at his bad jokes, it makes you look silly. Just ask him things about himself; until you both become comfortable enough with each other. Ask him about the games he likes, does he plan to join any team sports; then the big question...are there any girls he likes? Then that gives him a chance to confess if he might like someone else, or he'll avoid the question. That might mean he likes YOU! Hopefully, he'll be brave and say so.
There is no rush, if you're both too shy. If you don't get-up enough nerve, another girl will. Crushing in silence gets a little tiresome after awhile. If he's not interested in you, notes and cards will embarrass you. So just keep being friendly and open when he approaches. That gives him more nerve and lets him know you like him.
Just a warning, you can only put up with shyness for so long. There are other boys who may be trying to get your attention, pay more attention to people who let you know they like you. Don't always be dragged around by hopeless crushes. They'll make you miserable.
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reader, StormRose  +, writes (10 March 2015):
It seems as if you both have some interest is each other. If you find it difficult to communicate verbally with him, why not try a note or maybe a greeting card? Once you've broken the ice, things will be much easier. You will find all the answers to your questions! Alternatively, you could just check who he hangs out with and ask them if he has a girlfriend.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2015): It is possible that you might have a slight crush on this guy! :-)
All jokes aside, if you are not good with the spoken word, why not write him a note? Or maybe a greeting card? Take it slow and easy, don't rush it.
Once you feel more comfortable chatting to him, you will be able to find all the info you need and then you can plan your next move.
Best of luck!
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