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writes: my ex tells me he loves me, fell for me a long time ago and wants to be with me, the problem is im engaged and love my fiance but its nice getting all this attention from my ex. we ended on good terms and had great relationship. ive considered secretly meeting up with my ex as mates but not sure.
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reader, Toria +, writes (15 November 2006):
 Ex's are ex's for a reason, you broke up because something went wrong or wasn't right in your relationship.
He is your ex therefore you will always care about him and hold a small part of you for him that doesn't mean you still love him or want to be with him just that he's your past and was once a big part of your life.
He is probably just back on the scene telling you all these things because he can see your happy and moved on, I had an ex like this that deep down didn't really want to be with me but told me he loved me and wanted to be with me and wanted to give it another go everytime he saw I was happy and moving on with my life leaving him behind.
Good luck :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx for your responses, i know it would be silly to jeopardise my relationship with my fiance but i cant get my ex outa my head. i just keep thinking what if my fiance isnt the one.i shouldnt have feelings for someone else if i love my fiance. maybe i dnt have feelings for my ex, could just be the attention im enjoying! if i left my fiance and realised my ex isnt the one ill have ruined everything. if i stay with my fiance and forget bout my ex ill never know. so confused.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 sounds like your ex has told you that because he can see you have moved on and are now happy with someone else and he does not like that one little bit, i would say its his tough luck and stick with your fiance and have no more contact with your ex again you obviously love you fiance so dont mess your head up with feelings from the past and what if.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2006): No No No Please don't go there. You will regret it and it will only lead down one road. The road to pain and tears. I don't think you could live with yourself. Leave your ex where is belongs. Back in the past and look forward to a long a happy future with your bloke.
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reader, msel2304 +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Dont do it. Your engaged and if you love him like you say you do then dont jeopardize it for an ex. You ended for a reason and if you do think there might be something left then be honest with your fiancee, he has the right to know. Wouldnt you want to know?
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