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I'm desperate for sex with my boyfriend - how do I approach him about it?

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Question - (5 June 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 June 2008)
A female India age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi..am going to meet my boyfriend with a surprise visit in coming few days...and the guy i'll be dating is very busy these dayz...and don't even have time to sit and rest even...however..i know once i reach him....he won't deny for a date with me.atleast for few hours

But the thing is I'm really desparate in havin sex with him..a protected sex ofcourse....i really don't have any idea how to say him about it..and how to talk to him regarding it...coz am really shy in that chapter...and as i never had it b4...am totally confused how to start up with.

routine and can make him spend a little time in ma bed.

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A female reader, TELLULAH United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2008):

TELLULAH agony auntSurely he wont be to busy to spend a little time with you. Just tell him you would like some time alone with him and have a nice meal and a bottle of wine. That should break the ice.

Good luck.

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A male reader, tommy2k7 United Kingdom +, writes (5 June 2008):

tommy2k7 agony auntBefore I can reply to this question, I (and other potential answerers) need to know how long you have been going out with this guy.

As it's your first time, you're going to be nervous, but if your boyfriend really loves and cares for you, he'll respect you, whatever decision you make (this is why we really need to know how long you've been seeing this guy, as, if its not long, it may be better to wait)

Don't feel pressured to do it though, even though everybody else may tell you otherwise

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