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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I'm dating a boy over pity but he spends too much time holding me and not backing off. My friend who's probly my best friend is trying to help me get over my conscience but it won't work for me please give me some advice
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reader, miss fit +, writes (4 May 2007):
your going out with this boy out of pity ergo eventually your going to break up with him. the sooner you do it the better and quickly. there's a word for girls who can't say no. . .
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2007): you need to not put yourself in these situations- if you dont like him, please dont lead him on. There are other guys for you and other girls for him. Be the solution not the problem. Cognitive dissonance is not a fun thing trust me. Do it to be healthy.
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (3 May 2007):
 A relationship based on pity is not a healthy one, and it is not fair on him if his feelings are not reciprocated. Finish now if you have no true feelings for him and let him down gently.
It is not on him by giving him this impression.
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