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writes: i really really fancy this girl in my year. i never get to talk to her because she's really shy and quiet and i dont know how to start a conversation!yesterday i played football at lunch time on the grass. everyone which is the whole year has lunch and sits around the pitch and watches the boy's play on the grass. the girl i fancy is always with her mates watchin. so i joined in. i'm really good at football, so instead of playin properly i started doin lots of fancy tricks which made everyone applause, and cheer me on. i saw her smiling.i must admit i pulled of some very fancy tricks and no one managed to match me!that's just an example of how much i like her that i'm willing play football just to get attention of her. i've tried askin her to cinema but she's always busy!i cant talk to her coz only thing i can think of is hi are you ok? that's it otherwise it gets obvious and embarrassing!someone please help me, i'm crazy over her! alot of information will really help me!
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reader, ragdoll +, writes (19 April 2007):
 just say hi. it's very simple, yet thoughtful and touching. so what if you get embarrased from saying "hi?" you want the girl, right? so you have to do EVERYTHING just to get her. just start by being her friend first, and dont move too fast. and dont listen to ms. chachacha, even if she HAS already turned you down. unless she gets into a commitment, her descision might still change.
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (19 April 2007):
If she has turned down your offer of a date at the cinema, then you have your answer, I'm afraid.
If you can't think of anything to say to her, then I'm not surprised she has turned you down. She probably would like to go out with someone who is interesting to talk to, not someone who just thinks she's pretty.
Try seeing her as a PERSON and chatting to her about the same stuff you'd talk to anyone else about: e.g.
* did she go on holiday anyway over Easter? say what you did
* does she like the lovely warm weather, what does she think of global warming? say what you think
* is she worried about her exams / university? where will she go? where are you thinking of going?
* what do you think of certain teachers that you share? what does she think?
* what are her hobbies? yours is football - how did you get so good? tell her
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