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I'm convinced my ex-boyfriend still loves me even though he says otherwise

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Question - (25 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 April 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, *ngelav writes:

hi

I meet the guy on a webisite italiansingles in october we talked online then we started to talk on the phone we talked everyday and night we fell in love but we never meet but we saw each other on webcam. we talked all night on the phone.

everything was prefect then one day after the new year he said he couldnt do this anymore and when i ask him why he said becuase we were too diffrent but i dont think so. i am still in love with him and i think he is still in love with me even though he told me to leave him alone.

then i found his sister on facebook which made it worse so i made him one (a facebook acount) and he found out about it and got pissed at me for it.

then i started talking to psychics and wasted alot of money they said they would help him come back and i beleived them.

then i found out he had one (facebook account) so i tried to add him. he wouldnt so i made up fake names and he added but then he found out it was me. i even did one as me younger we talked for a week then i sent him anothor pic and he found out it was me.

he keeps telling me to leave him alone and that we will never get back together but i think he still loves me i dont know what to do.

please help me i think he still loves me

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2010):

You're believing what you want to believe, to the point where you are driving him away more than you can imagine. I know you love him, but he just doesn't love you at all. Men who are in love don't sit there saying 'leave me alone'. If he loved you, he'd be dating you and even living with you. You are becoming dangerously obsessed with this man, and you need to accept that you have to let him go. You've talked to him, and he's not interested, you've set up TWO fake accounts and when he's found out, he's cut contact. That's not the action of a man in love. That is the action of a man who doesn't love you. He doesn't love you, and you must move on.

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A male reader, Brunel Wallis and Futuna +, writes (25 April 2010):

Oh no he doesn't you are making a nuisamce of yourself!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

You are thinking that he still loves you because that is want you want to believe, he is telling you that he doesn't and that you two won't get back to together, not that you were ever 'together ' as you never met, listen to what he is telling you. It's time to let go and move on.

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