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I'm confused...could this have been a miscarriage?

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Question - (20 May 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 21 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been in a relationship for just over 7 months now. Me and my boyfriend started haveing a sexual relationship after around 2 months and i have recently been put on the pill. while haveing been on the pill for a week One day after haveing sex my boyfriend took of the condom and wiped himself down after haveing a laugh and a joke i got him to re-enter without the condom. this was only for a few seconds but is their anyway i could of got pregnant?

also a few weeks after that i started geting really really bad pains at the bootom of my stomach. I went to the toilet and found a redish grey lump in my underwear. Ever since i have asumed i must of been pregnant and misscaried. This is because nothing like that has ever happened to me. Do you thing it sounds like a miscarige? Thankyou for reading and i hope to hear from you soon

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (21 May 2010):

chigirl agony auntThe hilarious part in all is that people go to strangers online for medical help...

No offence poster, Im not referring only to your post, people should always see their doctor. Asking online is alright, but it is scary to think that there might be someone sometime who only takes online advice and don't see their doctor about it.

I think the anonymous poster who has had a miscarriage herself puts it clear: if you are suspicious this could have been one, go see your doctor! It's not worth taking risks with your health.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2010):

I would see a doctor. It sounds weird to me because you defined the lump as redish grey... and that doesnt really sound normal... I miscarried at 9 weeks and my baby was more of a traslucent creamy white, with two black beady "eyes" or what would have been eyes

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thankyou for the help i have researched on the internet about miscarige and thought i had but i needed to describe it to someone who i could get an answer of

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (20 May 2010):

I had the same thing happen to me at 24 after severe pain at the bottom of my stomach.The important thing to do is to VISIT A DOCTOR ASAP.Many a time part of the baby remains in the uterus thereby spoiling your chances of having a baby in future.The doctor cleans out the uterus by using D&C method.Its done under anesthesia and you can return home the same day.Please be more careful in future.

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