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writes: There is this guy at work that I have recently started liking. He got my number and we texted each other then we started talking on the computer. We went off one day and I felt we connected so much in common and we had fun. Before I went home he acted like he wanted to kiss me, then he kissed my cheek near my lips and got all quiet and went inside his house. Now he tells me he just wants to be friends, that beyond that is hazy for him that he doesn't want anyone hurt. Before that he told me he wanted to take it slow. He is a very shy guy this I know he has told me so much about himself. His friends are telling me not to give up on him to be the instigator and be his friend but keep trying to be more. He has told a mutual friend that he finds me attractive and he doesnt want to stop hanging out with me that he really enjoys it. I am so confused. Should I just be friends and forget being more or should I take it slow and hope he will change his mind? please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2005): This all depends on how long your want to wait for this guy to act like a man, and show he is truly interested in you, romantically. Some men never grow up. You have no guarantees that he will. Do you want to wait and see, or find someone who will treat you like the queen you are now?
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