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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i have been going out with my bouyfriend for 3 and a half years, we are both 17 now. Through these years we have been through lots of bumps and finishing each other and cheating, both of us are as bad as each other. But recently i have been going through some realy bad times at home and unfortunatly the worst part of me has been taken out on him. But he has been flirting with a friend of mine and i got jelous and shouted at him and said that i dunno if i could take go out with him anymore and i dont know why i said it.But we made up.The next day i rang him up and he said that he couldnt do this anymore and dumped me i realy tried my hardest to stop him from doing this.A few days later me and a few mates went out and he came along and they all ended up sleeping over, and in the morning a said my goodbyes to my ex boyfriend and told him that the only way id be abel to get over him was if we didnt see each other again. And he said okay and went.5 minuets later he knocked on the door and came in crying and hugging me and said that he was realy sorry for what he said and that he realised it was a mistake.But i feel very confused and i he hasnt realy made much effort to speek to me in the past couple of days.I was woundering what i should do with it all because i feel like a pushover but im also madly in love?confused:(
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reader, kansasdude408  +, writes (3 August 2008):
Well everybody has there share of childhood romances and 97% of them do not work out. You guys will drift apart i am sure this not what you want to hear but if you guys are really in love then i think that if you work at it and it is ment to be then it will all work itself out. If it dont work out though dont beat yourself up over it when life slams a door in your face look for the open window. Good Luck "when life gives you lemons make lemonaide"
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