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writes:Recently i told this girl i liked her but she said she was not looking for a relationship so i asked her to the christmas dance and she said yes.Then we were taking normally for about a week.After about a week she calls me and asks me if i was on drugs and i said ya i smoked weed but i stopped the day before as one of my friends asked me to and i said i had wanted to try it anyway. So then she starts talking about how i should take care of myself and i was saying ya i know thats why i stopped. Then she asks me if i will ever leave her and i said no i wont and she says she misses me and i said i did to and we were talking for a few min before she went to study for her exams.We are about 300 kms apart cuz i had come to the city for a break before college cuz i got double promotion earlier. But i am going back for christmas and will be there till i start college.Now my question is what is she thinking because she is confusing me about the way she feels about me.Also what would be a good christmas gift for her. She likes to sing and loves hannah montana and all that disney stuff. She is my age but i am about 5 months older.~Thanks.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (9 December 2009):
Ask her?
You can't let her have all the say on this.
If she doesn't want to be in a relationship then she can't expect you to "never leave her."
If she says she wants to be friends then be her friend. If she acts like she wants to be more then tell her that you want to be with her and you can't get led on if she isn't going to let that happen at some point.
As for what to get her for Christmas, I wouldn't get her anything much if she's not your girlfriend.
And stop doing drugs. They clearly don't impress her and they'll make you a useless boyfriend and a smelly one too.
Good Luck!! xx
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