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writes:Hey everyone!Im going to go straight into this question, im 17 years old and im in sixth form doing my a levels. In my sixth people come from all over the place, but ive been in that school since the age of 12. Well in september this boy came to the sixth form, and he had every girl in that school after him. He's gorgeous. Well i fell for him, as he used to be in some of my classes (unfortunatly he isnt anymore) so we got too know each other quite well, due to spending everyday in a lesson together. He's given me mixed signals from the start though, he used to come and sit by me in my classes and speak to me, and ask me what i though of the music he was listening too, or something he had heard recently. Then we would speak to each other in the evening on msn, but it was mostly about school work. Though he has twice asked me too go on webcam to him?Im too stubborn to speak to him first, and as he had girls falling all over him i felt stupid saying 'hiya alright' Well recently he's left my lessons, and since then we barely speak anymore. Well weve pretty much spoke once in the last week/two weeks. We do sometimes still speak in school, and i see him around but it isnt the same. I confinded in one of his mates (thats also very close to me) that i liked him, and around an hour later i found out that his mate had told him what i had said. The boy i like said that he thought i was fit, but he has something going on with another girl so he didnt fancy me. Then his mate had said well if things dont work out between you and this other girl why dont you give it a try with her (talking about me) and he said if* it doesnt we'l have to see what happends wont we.The next day him and the girl he was seeing had a very public arguement, as he had basically called it off with her. They were usually around the school together, but i havent seen them together in a while. The only thing is he hasnt spoken to me, even though they have fallen out, and he still has her in his 'msn name' with a love heart next too her. Then the day after all this happend, he came too where i was sat, and sat watching me. Every time id look over, he would be looking at me.So now im really confused, he goes from speaking to me all the time, asking me to go on webcam, and asking me what i think about his style and the way he looks etc. Too ignoring me.Then he finds out i like him, and him and his other girl have a huge argument and break it off the day after. Is this jsut a coincidence? yet he still hasnt spoke to me?Do i have a chance here? or shall i just leave it? Im so confused! why isnt he speaking to me?!Thankyou in advance xx
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reader, Niema.x  +, writes (9 December 2009):
 Hey honey :)
I understand you like this guy but do you really want to be the girl he got with just because his other relationship didnt work? Those kind of relationships never work as he will always be looking for something more. The talking and then ignoring you part, could he just see you as a good friend and you liking him has made he cool off a bit so he doesnt lead you on? If not and he actually does like you he's acting like a loser and hes seeing how much he can walk all over you. All you can do is just come clean and tell him , then atleast you know where you stand and if he doesnt feel the same you can move on and if he does feel the same then tell him that you wont be treated second best!
I hope everything works out for you
xxx
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