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writes:Hi all.I would really like some help. I’m completely infatuated with this guy who barely knows I exist. We’ve been texting a lot but when I see him, he acts as if I’m not there. So I’ve now starting doing the same to him and just blanking him. I don’t know why. It’s stupid, I know.But I really like him. He’s making my emotions yo-yo without even doing anything. I get jealous when I see him with his friends. Then I get really angry with him as he texts me but then acts as if I’m not there – he knows who I am. And I’m angry with myself for feeling this way and getting so jealous. I want to speak to him and get to know him but we just blank each other. We’re just as bad. We’re both teenagers which doesn’t help. But then, I doubt he feels the same about me so really I just need to get over how I feel. (Easier said than done)Any ideas how to control my emotions? How to break the ice with him gradually? Is that what I should do? Or should I leave it? I don’t know...I just want to know what to do. Please help... Before I go mad!!! Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): I would suggest you find a way that you two can hang our and talk casually without your friends around. I'm a guy and I unfortunately do the same thing often around a girl I like because I'm kind of embarrassed about my feelings and don't necessarily want other people to suspect I like her and then find out she doesn't like me. I don't know in what context you two know each other, but try to find a way you two can spend a little time together to talk...then you will get a better idea of how he feels and maybe see if there is a potential for a relationship down the road. Good luck!
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reader, luckystars88  +, writes (9 September 2009):
Don't be scared to invite him to hang out or get together or something. he may be thinking the same thing your thinking.. granted he may not but its better to find out than to always be wondering. if he doesnt respond to you trying to get to know him better then he probably isnt worth your time. but you never know if he is just not the type to make the first move with you or anyone else. No harm in trying. just dont be too upset if it doesnt work out. in fact you may find out in getting to know him that his attitude towards you will totally put you out. high school boys can be fun but can be really inconsiderate. so keep your walls up enough that you dont get your feelings hurt too bad but be brave enough to try and you may be pleasantly surprised.
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