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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year but I feel the romance is gone. Actually the romance was never there, and I don't know how to define our relationship. He has been home often because of some probation restrictions he has a curfew. We live together, our own place, but we never interact at home. He plays video games all day and night and I try to be nice, but he doesn't want to be bothered, so I go on the computer.I get bored being home all the time, but lately the only options I have in hanging out with him is to run errands with him or once in a blue moon, he offers me to hang out with him and his friends which I don't want to do because they are all guys who cheat on their girlfriends or are violent towards them, and they all ditch their girlfriends who most of them have children to go out drinking every night.he has been home lately but we never talk, do anything together, he forgets plans we make, says he wants to marry me, but doesn't show any romance outside of sex which we don't kiss and when he's done it's over and he gets back to his video games.I'm bored and I'm tired of our lack of depth! what should I do? I've already mentioned it to him, but there's no difference.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): I honestly suggest trying to get into the games he is playing.
Up until a few months ago, I got into playing video games with my boyfriend because I noticed that he enjoyed them immensely. I had never played video games before. I preferred outside recreation like tennis, swimming, running, etc., but WOW! They're fun! We are currently playing World of Warcraft and it is awesome! :D
And this is coming from a blonde beach chick xP
Give it a try if you want to try to make it work between you two.
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