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writes:Hi everyone,I really am just heartbroken right now and have noone else to talk to about this. I broke up with my boyfriend of two and a half years last October. I found out that he'd been lying to me the whole time and cheated with lots of different women. This last one year we stayed in contact, met up occasionally,slept together- the last time being last week when I was in his city. This whole time he'd been leading me on. So I finally asked me last night. He said he didn't feel anything for me. I really feel like he only ever took advantage of the fact that I loved him and just used me. I thought he would change. But he clearly only wanted me for sex those two years and even now. I feel stupid for putting myself through this again when I did know better. But he did lead me on, kept going on about how much he wanted to be friends, called at all hours, several times a day. Why? He clearly always got what he wanted but how can someone not care how he hurts another person? I promised myself that I would not cry over that man ever again but its all I can do not to. For now, I've blocked him on Facebook, Skype, everything. I really do not want to see him or speak to him or think of him again. I haven't felt this alone or helpless ever and I would love to be with my family but they're all half the world away...
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (8 November 2008):
I'm so sorry this happened to you. It's not your fault. Some men are just utter creeps and you were unlucky to find one.
You have done the right thing by blocking him from contacting you.
Do you have any friends you could talk to about this? Even if they don't know you very well, I am sure they would take you out to have some fun and help you forget him.
Open up to someone and go out and drown your sorrows.
You are better than him and he should not waste your time any longer.
Good Luck!! xx
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