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writes: Im for sure for sure bisexual and I need to know should I tell my parents about it,they tend to be extreemly closed minded and Im not sure they will understand. My family is going through crisis after crisis and im not sure wether I should wait a couple of years to tell them,tell them stright up,or keep my mouth shut...help. Reply to this Question
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reader, xapathyxrebornx  +, writes (24 July 2008):
 I'm 17 and bisexual, I only told my dad last year....yet it was in random curious conversation... I was lay on the couch and dad was watching the telly and i said
Me: "Daaaaaaaad what would you do if i was gay?"
Dad: "I'd get used to it i suppose.."
Me: "what would you do if i was bi?"
Dad: "I'd call you greedy"
hehe
try asking curiously...all kids do that to their parents so whatever reaction your on a winner x
only tell them serously when your ready adnf eel you need to x
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reader, x.xTwIRlyx.x +, writes (23 July 2008):
Im 17, and been bisexual since i was 13 and my parents still dont know. i kinda like that they dont, its my life and until i meet someone i want to settle with they wont know!
just do what feels right for you.
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reader, Curiousbynature  +, writes (23 July 2008):
I think your parents do need to know. I played college softball so I have been in contact with ALOT of lesbians. And they all said they wish they would have told their parents earlier and it would have been easier. just a suggestion. They will love you no matter what!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (23 July 2008):
It says you are 13 to 15 so you are hardly going to be bringing serious boy/girlfriends back to the house.
Don't tell them until you need to. If they are closed minded then they will probably not believe you anyway as many people think Bisexuality is just a phase or a teenaged thing.
Wait till you are older and they have less on their minds.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Frankie14 +, writes (23 July 2008):
 a lot of people experiment when they're younger, i did and i went through a phase of thinking i was bisexual, but yeah at this age you're open to new things and your mind's all mixed up, not meaning to be disrespectful but it could be temporary, wait a while before telling them and if you're absolutely one hundred percent sure, then sit them down, this shouldnt be treated as a crisis and they have to love you regardless, i would maybe tell one of them at a time, because you might feel a bit ganged up on if they're together, then ask questions, see if they ever had any experiences, and then drop it in that you may see girls the same way you see boys, and how it's not going to change so there's no point in them saying anything to you,, well good luck x
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