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writes:Okay,I am bi... and I like this one particular girl at school (who is bi also) but i have gotten over her because she has a boyfriend and there is nothing i can do about that. If her situation was to change then I would probably attempt to tell her.Anyway, I was just wondering if this is normal. I am bi and there have been a few girls that i have been interested in, in the past. But only that one girl now.But I am attracted to boys a lot easier than girls. I can see a guy and think he is cute or sexy and be immediatley attracted just by looks.But for girls it is only a few individuals that catch my attention. I do not just see them and are attracted to them. (like with guys)I was just wondering if that was normal or not, to be bi, attracted to very few women but i Seriously like them when i find them. But find many more guys than girls.It's as if unless a girl stands out to me i won't even look at them in a way that i would be interested in them. Whereas I will look at any guy i find attractive in that way.Need your help please.Thanks
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reader, cotta88  +, writes (4 October 2009):
I think that it's normal. This is just an opinion, I am straight so maybe it's a little different, but I have many lesbian and bi friends. I think it's normal because when I look at guys I'm not attracted to all guys, as when you look at women you are not attracted to all women. So your tastes may lean towards men more often and that's normal too. One of my very good friends leans a lot towards women and finds them very attractive but when she sees guys she's very picky about them...I guess you could say she's the opposite of what you described. It's all about certain traits that you pick out in that person, not solely based on their gender.
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