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female
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30-35,
*aveykisses
writes:I think i found mister right but i have major trust issues from previous relationships and he says everything i want to hear and treats me like a princess but I'm scared that i will get hurt cause of the distance he has to go to Florida for college and he wants me to go with him but i have to finish school here first and his school wont wait they want him to transfer now. I'm scared if he leaves he will want someone down there and cheat on me he kept telling me he wont and I'm his one and only but I'm scared to believe that cause his ex girlfriend lives down there and they were together for three years and seven months and he loved her a lot but she hurt him like my ex did me. I know he wont cheat on my but I'm scared his feelings for her will return and he will leave me for her...i know in my heart he wont but it still scares me cause for the first time i want to give him my hole heart and soul and all of my trust but I'm scared if i let him threw that door ill get hurt i want to give him everything and him give me everything in return...is it wrong for me to trust and fall in love with someone this quick we have been dating for almost 2 months and i feel like hes my one and only my soul mate my everything...is it wrong for me to want to put the past in the past and love him for everything he is willing to give me plus more
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 October 2009):
It sounds like you didn't give yoourself enough time to grive and now you're really worried. The only way to build up this relationship is to trust him. Sit him down, and tell him that you're worried because of your past relationships. At the end of it, you have to trust him, because if you can't, you'll drive him away. He's a different guy,so start with that. He's with you, so remember that. If you can't trust him, then you need to move on. Also, you could try talking to a counsellor to get your emotions out and to understand them. But you need to trust him.
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