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writes:I recently lost my girlfriend We didn't have sex as often as we liked due to not getting to see eachother that often. Usually, every few weekends. It was rough!! (not the sex, haha) Despite that, now that we have split, I find myself almost addicted to sex. I masturbate 2 or 3 times a day, and just can't seem to stop. I have a lot of time on my hands, and while I'm bored, I can't find anything else to do with my time other than.. you know.Is there anything that can assist me in fighting my urges? I know I need will power, but I don't have a lot of that. Coming out of the relationship seems to have thrown it all away. I want sex, and can't have sex, and doing what I'm doing just makes me feel like less of a man.Help me out Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2007): Well, you want sex because you were designed to have sex and as much sex as possible - that's the survival of the species. I don't think you're becoming a nympho. I think that since you have broken up with your GF, you've got extra time on your hands (pun intended). I've read were many men masturbate 2-3 times per day. Heck, for the first time ever I masturbated for 3 HOURS yesterday. Talk about having not having anything else to do but, you know...I say continue to masturbate. You may want to cut down on the frequency though as you might get sore (my penis was so sore after that session). Learn about your body and what feels good to you. Learn how to last longer :) You may come across a partner who frequently enjoys very long lovemaking sessions. Or just wait until your married...
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reader, Karlos Omnis +, writes (10 August 2007):
 You need to try some replacement therapy.When you feel the urge, you need to occupy yourself with something else.Preferably something physical, such as cycling or running, maybe even a martial arts class.The urge to masturbate normally manifest from a lack of physical activity anyway, so this may stop it at its source in any case.It doesn't seem you are doing this because you are horny, its as you said, the only thing that you have to occupy the hours, so you've made up a justification for it, in that you are addicted to sex.Get a hobby, and you're interest will wane
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2007): Get a hobby. Go to college full time, get a job or a 2nd job if you're working. Why not try to get a girlfriend too?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (9 August 2007):
 I can say this much: It will go away. Don't worry. It comes from the fact that now you're alone.
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