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writes:I'm attracted to men but I feel an attraction to women as well. I don't think I've met a woman in real life yet that I'm attracted to, but I know I feel aroused when I see women in the media - like when I watch a sex scene in a movie. This may be because our culture is highly focused on sexualizing a woman's body - a whole other topic. (I've also had quite a few sexual dreams about women, and tomorrow night I'm going with my lesbian friend to a gay bar because she doesn't want to go alone and I'm feeling a little nervous about it.)However, if I ever did meet a woman that I felt a strong emotional and physical attraction to, I just don't think I can go down there. Or even touch that area. Alright, I'll say it - VAGINA. It's messy, it's sticky, it gets smelly and I'm sure it has a taste...my ex-boyfriends didn't go down on me that much because I have a tendency to get too wet, and the one boyfriend who loved doing it would come up with a wet gooey face and it just grossed me out. I asked my lesbian friend about it and she said it's not her favorite thing to do. Is there anything good about going down there or should I just stick with men and getting drunk and making out with a woman once in a while?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2011): I recommend starting right away with oral before she gets really wet and for the taste and smell try using flavored lube like strawberry its not that expensive you can even buy it at Walmart just squirt a little down there and it masks the taste and smell or you can just try licking over top of her panties.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (16 July 2011):
 ps. same with blowjobs: it can get too wet. When you lick you also add saliva (spit) to the mixture and it can get too wet and sloppy. That's not good for either you or the woman (same as we don't like sloppy kisses). The solution is simple, keep a piece of fabric nearby to wipe your mouth or her pussy with. It can be a soft towel, your underwear, the bedsheets, whatever is practical. Then continue.
When I give blowjobs I sometimes stop to wipe my mouth because it gets too wet everywhere, if it's not much I just use the back of my hand and then get back in, but bedsheets also work. You typically sweat the bedsheets out, or make a mess out of them anyway.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (16 July 2011):
Hahahah! "It's messy, it's sticky, it gets smelly and I'm sure it has a taste..."
No, sweet you, it isn't. When you are in love, and mature, every part of your lovers body will be amazing and fantastic.
I don't like the taste of myself. And when picturing some random pussy in my mind, hairy or sticky or smelly... yeah, not that tempting. But neither is a sticky, smelly, hairy penis. And when it comes down to it, I love giving both blowjobs and licking ladies. Reality is different from the worst case scenario images you play in your mind.
Is there anything good about going down on a woman? Same as there is anything good on going down on a man. Of course, people have preferences, some just can't stand oral sex period. But plenty love it.
So you asked what's great about going down on a woman? Here's my list (main things, I can't include everything as it's about the full experience as well):
Her naked body, taking her in, admiring her beauty, and her vagina too, how it looks.
The taste, each woman tastes different, the smell is also unique, and in the women I have been with it has been intoxicating (I repeat I don't particularly like my own smell or taste, but with other women it is different).
The feel of her skin on your tongue and lips, your fingers against her wetness.
The best of all is her reaction, how she moans or reacts to the different places you touch, different ways of licking, using your fingers at the same time or just your tongue, sucking or flickering over her clitoris... So many different things to do and so many different responses.
The over all best is of course if you get her to come, and see her pleasure. It's great. Her breasts might swell, her back arches, the sounds she makes... If I continue describing what's great about going down on a woman this will turn into an erotic novel, so I'll stop here.
Don't worry about this. If you find a woman you want to go down on you wont have this issue, and if you don't feel like going down on her then she wasn't the one for you, easy enough.
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